Coffee with myself

I was eager to meet her – myself from 25 years ago, a young student of Psychology. I couldn’t wait to hear her thoughts and share some advice. I suggested a coffee, but she wanted a beer!

She was confident that her mission was to help others, be part of their journeys! As she spoke, I could see a sparkle in her eyes, a pure and genuine passion to make a difference in people’s lives! But her eyes also revealed something deeper – a lack of self-esteem, scars of toxic relationships, and an emptiness that she still wanted to fill.

Dé, you are on the right path! Your sensibility and care are your greatest strengths! Believe me, you are far more capable and extraordinary than you realize. Remember the advice you received and it’s still carved in your heart? “Be yourself, then everything will be fine!” Even if this memory feels like a creation of your imagination, take it seriously! It may be the best words he ever said to you.

Always be yourself! Enjoy life! Eat a lot! 🙂 You are going to lose the extra pounds after one week of exercising! Don’t drink too much! Don’t be so hard on yourself. Hug your gramma once again! Spend time nurturing friendships and family—they are precious!

She smiled and agreed. Then I asked her if she would not ask me about her future. If I was what she was expecting. Honestly, her lack of curiosity was bothering me…

She laughed and asked me: are you happy?

Her question made me realize how worried I am about my future. She reminded me that grumbling paralyzes, but taking responsibility mobilizes! So, I recognized that I am my best version! Yeah, still struggling with the validation, but aware of myself!

Looking forward to having a beer with you, Dé! I think it is going to be fun! But I will have wine okay? Gluten-free 😉

Saudades! I miss you…